Let me begin by saying I am beyond tired of hearing about Tiger Woods & his fornicatin' ways. Every legitimate - and not so legit -news source, pop culture blog & pundit have been all over this story. He cheated - A LOT - I get it.
But - and forgive my cranky old man rant here - I don't know why anyone is surprised. I'm disappointed, yes, surprised, no. Whatever he did off the green, he was - and is - a great golfer. But that commitment to excellence in golf doesn't seem to have translated to his commitment to his marriage. There was two sets of rules.
Personally, I think it's because as a culture, we've become very complacent about marriage. No one gets married for better or for worse, it's just "for now" or until "I get a better offer. Marriage isn't sacred anymore.
For example - and I know it's a lame one - if you watch Glee, you've seen Will's wife spend most of this season deceiving him about her pregnancy. At first it was silly, then the deception kept getting deeper . I think we can all agree they portrayed his wife Terri as Satan's sister & we all loved it when he confronted her & told her off. That's the power of TV - we invest ourselves in these characters. All the while, Emma, the Guidance Counsellor has had a crush on Will, and we've watched her awkwardly flirt all season. She's a sweet, likable, lovable character so we were all rooting for them to end up together. But, here's the thing. Will is still married.
I know it's just a TV show. I know it's supposed to be fun & it's hardly hard hitting, thought provoking drama - it's a show about a high school show choir for crying out loud. My point is just that we've come to the point that we're rooting for the wrong things. Part of me wanted Will to dump his carzy, harpie of a wife & fall for Emma. Not to give it too much thought but if it were real people we'd feel differently. I quit watching Grey's Anatomy a couple of years ago when George & Izzy's affair became a storyline. My sister was going through an ugly divorce at the same time, and the way the show portrayed Izzy as a sympathetic character bothered me. Cheating is cheating is cheating.
I know I'm making a big thing out of a little thing. I'll still watch the show - my girls like it & we watch it together. I'm not saying all the shows I watch are wholesome & family friendly & I'm not pretending everything I watch fits the "Little House on the Prairie" profile. Nor am I suggesting it's TV's fault if a marriage fails or a family falls apart. Personal accountability is the bottom line.
But it still made me stop and think.